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I know the quote seems easier said than done. Letting go isn't easy and staying in the present instead of stressing over the future isn't either but it's one of the healthiest things you could for yourself. Too many times we fail to realize that we've been holding onto past experiences and letting them hold us hostage. They hold our happiness, our peace and our true essence of who we are and sometimes we get so used to it that we just start to think that the hurt and angry pe

You're good! Whatever you may be going through, probably feels horrible but remind yourself that you're good. God does not give us more than we can handle, so you are going to get through it. Now don't mistaken telling yourself you're good for hiding your feelings. It's okay to not feel like you are okay but telling yourself consistently will give you that push you need and the reminder that you are a strong person. Cry it out, it's okay but you will be good! Xoxo~SteffieJ #M

Things get tuff and sometimes we feel like we can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, but no matter how impossible it seems, there is always one. Don't let giving up be an option because once you give up, you put yourself right back at square one and who wants to start tuff times all over again? What I mean is, you start to gain Faith and courage and as soon as you doubt and give up, you have to start that process all over again. Keep going and you will see that once yo

Tonight, I am going to keep my message super short because I think this quote is so powerful and really speaks for itself! It takes courage to become your own warrior and a lot of times you become one because you have to be. Though, once you are your own warrior, you feel like nothing can break you! Just like the post says, "you choose to be one because if not you, who?" Goodnight loves! Xoxo, SteffieJ #Quoteforthenight #Growing #InspirationalMessage #Quoteoftheday #Overcomin

Sometimes, there's moments in our lives where we need to tell ourselves, "I won't apologize for growing." Have you ever come across someone who has literally tried to make you feel bad for reasons that can only be explained by the fact that you've grown up? They are so annoying right? Toxic people are a mess and only God can help them but from personal experience, everything gets brighter when you start to keep your distance from those type of people. It's not fair to keep ge

Tonight I'm giving you all a quote of the night because this one stuck out to me and I had to share but I'll keep it short! This is also something that I need to apply in my life as well. I myself have noticed that sometimes I pray for things and instead of waiting it out and letting God work, I get too caught up with trying to "help out" and speed up the process. The sucky thing about this is that it puts us back at square one and/or does not end up well. We need to learn to

It can be hard to ALWAYS try and look at the bright side of things and situations especially when we're the ones going through them right?? But when we make ourselves anyway it can actually make whatever we are going through a million times more bearable. So today, no matter how you're feeling or what you're going through, force that smile and tell yourself at least three positive things and I promise you that it will at least make you feel a little bit better because if we w

Fear is something that can easily get to us right? It's so easy to let fear scare us away from something that could potentially be great for us. Sometimes we get scared and run away from things without even noticing. I know I've done it before! With tonights post, I want to get a little personal and a little real with you guys.    Being "only" 18, I know I don't know everything. Believe me I know, but from what I do know and from personal experience, I bet we can all agree th

Deciding to do things for others and not just for ourselves is huge. Wanting to inspire others is a passion of mine and one of the reasons why I started this blog! I have experienced some tough situations and the last thing I wanted to do was pity myself or let it defeat me. We have to show the world that we are not what we've been through, we are not what we're going through, we're not our past nor our mistakes. Let's inspire others, do things for others and let the world ta

Hi my loves! This is my first post since creating my blog and I hope you all like it! This quote by Dr. Seuss(who I absolutely loved as a child) is so true. A lot of times we take moments in our lives for granted and don't really cherish them until they become a memory. This can go for so many things like relationships, friendships, moments with family etc. It's a tuff feeling when you realize that you should have payed more attention to a certain moment in your life that has