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Sometimes, there's moments in our lives where we need to tell ourselves, "I won't apologize for growing." Have you ever come across someone who has literally tried to make you feel bad for reasons that can only be explained by the fact that you've grown up? They are so annoying right? Toxic people are a mess and only God can help them but from personal experience, everything gets brighter when you start to keep your distance from those type of people. It's not fair to keep ge

Tonight I'm giving you all a quote of the night because this one stuck out to me and I had to share but I'll keep it short! This is also something that I need to apply in my life as well. I myself have noticed that sometimes I pray for things and instead of waiting it out and letting God work, I get too caught up with trying to "help out" and speed up the process. The sucky thing about this is that it puts us back at square one and/or does not end up well. We need to learn to

Hey guys! I just wrapped up my first week of college and it was AMAZING!!!! Before I get into details, I just want to apologize for not being as active these last 2 weeks. Moving into my dorm one week and starting classes the next really took up a lot of time but now that I am all adjusted, I can start blogging more consistently again. Back to how it has been being the new kid in college! Being a Freshman in college can be very nerve-wracking but I was actually very excited t

Always find a reason to laugh and smile! There are times in our lives when we come across some of the most hateful and mean people. Yes, their words and/or actions can be hurtful, saddening and can make us angry for that moment, but despite what those people say or do, always find a reason to laugh or smile. When those feelings of anger or sadness come, let's not react in a way that we'll regret, let's just calm down, relax, pray and then smile. Once we give it to God, we hav

Is there something that you really want to happen in your life but it hasn't yet? Or maybe you've just been feeling like you're in a rut lately? Did you know that the way you think and speak can have an affect on what happens in your life? If you constantly speak and think negativity, then you're going to get negativity. If you say you'll never accomplish something or you can't do something, then you won't, but if you think positive thoughts and speak positive words, you will

Every year on New Years Eve, we all set out plans and goals for our lives and if we don't stick to them right away, a lot of times we just say "Maybe next year." It's never too late to start working towards your goals no matter how far from January 1st we are! I am guilty of doing the same thing. There has been times when I set goals for myself and prayed that the new year would be nothing but great things and as soon as life threw me a curveball I would say "Maybe next year.