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I know the quote seems easier said than done. Letting go isn't easy and staying in the present instead of stressing over the future isn't either but it's one of the healthiest things you could for yourself. Too many times we fail to realize that we've been holding onto past experiences and letting them hold us hostage. They hold our happiness, our peace and our true essence of who we are and sometimes we get so used to it that we just start to think that the hurt and angry pe

You're good! Whatever you may be going through, probably feels horrible but remind yourself that you're good. God does not give us more than we can handle, so you are going to get through it. Now don't mistaken telling yourself you're good for hiding your feelings. It's okay to not feel like you are okay but telling yourself consistently will give you that push you need and the reminder that you are a strong person. Cry it out, it's okay but you will be good! Xoxo~SteffieJ #M

Things get tuff and sometimes we feel like we can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, but no matter how impossible it seems, there is always one. Don't let giving up be an option because once you give up, you put yourself right back at square one and who wants to start tuff times all over again? What I mean is, you start to gain Faith and courage and as soon as you doubt and give up, you have to start that process all over again. Keep going and you will see that once yo

Sometimes, there's moments in our lives where we need to tell ourselves, "I won't apologize for growing." Have you ever come across someone who has literally tried to make you feel bad for reasons that can only be explained by the fact that you've grown up? They are so annoying right? Toxic people are a mess and only God can help them but from personal experience, everything gets brighter when you start to keep your distance from those type of people. It's not fair to keep ge

Always find a reason to laugh and smile! There are times in our lives when we come across some of the most hateful and mean people. Yes, their words and/or actions can be hurtful, saddening and can make us angry for that moment, but despite what those people say or do, always find a reason to laugh or smile. When those feelings of anger or sadness come, let's not react in a way that we'll regret, let's just calm down, relax, pray and then smile. Once we give it to God, we hav

It can be hard to ALWAYS try and look at the bright side of things and situations especially when we're the ones going through them right?? But when we make ourselves anyway it can actually make whatever we are going through a million times more bearable. So today, no matter how you're feeling or what you're going through, force that smile and tell yourself at least three positive things and I promise you that it will at least make you feel a little bit better because if we w